In response to yesterday’s post, a reader left the following comment:
Choosing to have a retarded child is a moral atrocity. There’s no way to get around the fact that Down syndrome causes suffering in everyone involved. The parents who support bringing more people burdened with this illness into the world only want to extend their and their children’s suffering to everyone else. They should be named for what they are – evil.
Every child should be loved and valued – but a fetus is not a child until he or she is born – and what kind of perverted monster do you have to be to want your children to suffer their entire life? Only the religious dogma behind the hypocritical “culture of life” is capable of sinking people to this level.
These remarks grieve me as much as they anger me. They anger me because it’s hard for me to fathom how anyone could have such an open and callous indifference towards the humanity of the weakest among us. They grieve me because I get the feeling that this person actually believes their own twisted error. Nevertheless, a couple of words by way of response are in order.
First, this reader says that choosing to bring a Down syndrome child to term is a “moral atrocity” because such children suffer and bring suffering into the lives of others. Is this really how we will assess who should live and who should die? Are we going to authorize the killing of innocent persons simply because we think their lives are not worth living? What about babies who become mentally impaired after they are born? Should we execute them as well? What about people who are burdening their families and suffering in cancer wards right now? Should we execute them? No, the logic undergirding that proposition would lead to macabre injustices that any reasonable person can foresee. A person’s human dignity and right to life do not derive from their ability not to suffer or be a burden to others.
Second, the reader claims that “a fetus is not a child until he or she is born.” This simply will not stand, and many modern day pro-choice advocates have abandoned such arguments. What is the difference between a child in the birth canal and one who has passed out of it? Does it make sense to say that the child inside the birth canal is not a person created in the image of God, but the one outside of the birth canal is? The only difference between the two is a little bit of time and a little bit of distance.
This reader makes the common mistake of thinking that the unborn are not human persons because they are so small, because they are less developed, because they are still inside the womb, because they are not viable (they depend on their mother’s womb for life). A few probing questions reveals the bankruptcy of this thinking. You can remember the questions by the acronym S.L.E.D. (source).
Size: Does your personhood derive from your size? Is Arnold Schwarzenegger more of a person than Gary Coleman?
Level of development: Does your personhood derive from your level of development? Is the burly football player more of a person than a prepubescent boy?
Environment: Does your personhood depend on your location? Does sitting inside a house make you more or less a person than one sitting outside a house?
Degree of dependency: Does dependence upon another determine your personhood? Is a diabetic on kidney dialysis less of a person than those who do not need such support?
The answer to all of these questions is obviously “no.” If size, level of development, environment, and degree of dependency don’t determine our personhood, then why would they determine the personhood of the unborn? The answer is that they don’t.
5 Comments
Barry
Denny,
Great comments. I would also add that I have and do personally know families with Down S. children. No one argues that there are great difficulties involved, but to suggest that it is, in its totality, “suffering” and “evil” as this person put it, is to announce their ignorance to the world via the web, since, accompanying the difficulties are unspeakable joys. Joys that would be absent were we all to accept the position argued for above. Bless God that we do not.
Also, is not the murder of the unborn more of a “moral atrocity” and “evil” than allowing them to live and be loved and cared for? Since when do you get to decide when another person’s innocent life is worth living? Seems like death is worse.
Barry
Nick
Whoever wrote that obviously knows what they’re talking about, I mean come on, just look at these miserable people with Downs syndrome:
http://www.abcnews.go.com/2020/Story?id=2354714&page=1
Oh wait, my bad! That’s a happily married Downs syndrome couple! From the last page of the article:
“Carrie and Sujeet were married in a Hindu ceremony on July 1, and a Christian ceremony on July 8. For each tradition, Carrie was dressed like a princess.
“You have written my life with your love for me,” she told Sujeet during their vows. Sujeet, in the final ceremony, chose to express his feelings in music. He went to the church piano and played “For Once in My Life.”
For their first dance as husband and wife, Carrie and Sujeet chose the theme from the film “Titanic,” “My Heart Will Go On.”
“It means no matter where we are in life — we will never grow apart,” Carrie said. “If you really love somebody, never, ever quit.”
Clearly, anyone who says people with Downs syndrome live a life of “suffering” has no idea what they’re talking about. The real “moral atrocity” here is telling the weak and disabled that their life isn’t worth living and that they’d be better off dead.
Jen Strange
Here, here, Denny! Thanks for this–it’s a salve to my sad heart after first reading the comment on your earlier post.
Chase
The idea that murdering children is acceptible because they have downs is a decent indicator that the previously mentioned commenter may have a god syndrome.
HeroicLife
I’ve posted a response to your comments here:
http://www.rationalmind.net/?p=1072