9 Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments; 10 but rather by means of good works, as befits women making a claim to godliness.
In preparing my message, my wife reminded me of a resource from Carolyn Mahaney that helps women to think and to dress modestly. It’s called the “Modesty Heart Check,” and you can download the PDF here. It focuses not merely on the external but on the attitude of the heart. The pamphlet begins with a set of questions:
- What statement do my clothes make about my heart?
In choosing what clothes to wear today, whose attention do I desire and whose approval do I crave? Am I seeking to please God
or impress others?
- Is what I wear consistent with biblical values of modesty, self-control and respectable apparel, or does my dress reveal an inordinate identification and fascination with sinful cultural values?
- Who am I trying to identify with through my dress? Is the Word of God my standard or is it the latest fashion?
- Have I solicited the evaluation of other godly individuals regarding my wardrobe?
- Does my clothing reveal an allegiance to the gospel or is there any contradiction between my profession of faith and my practice of godliness?
The booklet goes on to give a litany of very practical guidelines for women as they think about how to dress modestly. This is a short booklet, but I think it is very helpful. You can download it here.